Your Body is Sacred
Men, let’s talk about sex. Not with bravado, but with vulnerability. Our sexuality is divine, yet we are raised in a world that would have us drive a wedge of shame and confusion between our spirit and our body. It is my passion to help men break down those barriers, shed the heavy weight of needless shame, and shine the light of clarity on the darkness of ignorance.
My Story
My journey of sexual healing really started two years ago when - as any good story starts - I met a woman. Up until that point, I did not know what masculinity meant. I always found it easier to connect with my feminine side, and was afraid to embody anything remotely like the constant portrayal of “Toxic Masculinity” that permeates our media. I knew what I did NOT want to be, but no idea who I did want to be. Then I met a woman so consciously connected to and embodying her femininity that it awoke something inside of me - and broke something inside of me as well. She had introduced me to myself, as the feminine oracle does so well, but she was not meant to save me from it. I spent the next two years on a journey of healing and discovery, seeking out masculine teachers and leaders, and exploring what deep sexual intimacy really means. You can lead a horse to water, but only he can choose to take a drink.
My Mission
I believe that each and everyone of us has a mission, a divine purpose, their own part to play in changing the world. I have found mine. I do this work because this I believe through healing the Masculine of this Earth, one Man at a time, we can break the generational cycle of traumatizing each other. We can heal. We can become whole individually and collectively. I am not a therapist, I am not here to fix or cure anyone. I am here to guide you to your own truth and hold space for you to do your own healing.
I help men become the best versions of themselves, getting past a performance mindset and into their body. Great sex is your birthright (and your partner’s), and through the process of unlearning you can discover the great lover that is already within you.
FAQs
How much does it cost?
I believe in full price transparency and I will never make a hard sell. Discovery calls are always free. If you choose to move forward, packages will range from 300 a month to 1500 for a six month commitment.
Do you work with Gay or Trans men?
In some instances, yes. My experience in this life is that of a cisgendered, bisexual/heteroromantic white guy, so those are primarily the types of men I am able to be of the most service. However, I encourage everyone to submit a inquiry. If, after the end of our free 30 minute discovery call, I believe that I am not the best person to help you, I will help you find someone that is. I do not ever want to turn someone away, but I will also never try to practice beyond my own expertise. That being said, if you are a straight man who is questioning your sexuality, please reach out to me! I would be honored to hold the space for you to walk through that beautiful journey of self-discovery, wherever it leads.
What kind a month of coaching look like?
Meeting every other week over zoom. Each session is a process of going deeper. After each session I will give practical tools to implement into your life. This includes solo-play for everyone, and partnered activities for those who have sexual partners.
I will prepare for each session based upon notes from our previous session - or if it is our first session, from your intake form. I will take notes during each session and send them to you, as well as any other follow up information that we did not get to discuss during our session.
In between our sessions, I am available anytime for questions or clarification regarding email or on signal. I want to see you succeed, heal, and liberate yourself, at whatever pace works for you.
Do I have to get naked on camera?
NO. I will never ask you to show any part of your body, nor will I show you mine. If there are demonstrations of techniques needed I will use props. If we discover through the course of our work together that you need physical touch, I will help you find appropriate sexual body workers in your area.
What if I’m single, or a virgin?
In many ways, this can be the best time to start this journey! In order to learn to make love to another, it is vital we first learn to make love to ourselves. Inexperience is nothing to be ashamed of, and yet it is often the shame of our inexperience that keeps us from seeking out partners.